The Virgo Man In Bed: What To Expect And How To Turn Him On

Sex with a Virgo man – the bare facts, turn-ons and turn-offs from sexual astrology

You won’t see this man eagerly chasing a girl. When he likes someone, this guy hardly makes the first move.

He is timid and he would wait for something to happen out of nowhere, rather than doing something in his own romantic interest. Punctual and neat, the Virgo man likes the same things in a partner.

Besides this, he also likes people who are tactful, mannered and cultivated. He enjoys getting together with friends and he knows from the start who’s going to be his friend, and who only an acquaintance.

Many would say the Virgo man is overcritical. And it’s true. Nobody likes to be told what his or her faults are, so it’s difficult for the Virgo native to make friends or keep a partner close. But he can’t help it and he tries to make everything and everyone perfect.

He can’t make compliments and he needs a quiet environment as he is nervous sometimes. He’s also a health freak, so if you want to have a conversation with him, use this subject.

He finds the woman being something to be explored and experimented. He will spoil his lady in exchange for his curiosity. He views sex as another thing that he needs to do in life.

The real deal

When you are with the Virgo man you don’t need to worry that his hands may be in the wrong place or that he’ll starts kissing and hugging you in public. He won’t expect sex after the first date either.

He’s a gentleman and he’ll always respect his partner’s honor. When sex time arrives, he will most likely be prepared with clean socks, the shaving kit and a toothbrush.

He wouldn’t want to appear the next day at work not groomed. So don’t be stunned if he starts talking about your dream night before it happens. He may want to take care of every little detail.

Sensitive, the Virgo man will never be vulgar when showing his affection. As well, he would never insist if someone wouldn’t want him.

In bed, his foreplay is methodical as if he has rehearsed it. He knows very well what excites a lady and he will use all his knowledge to offer pleasure.

He is rather about how sex looks and not about the passion between you two. This can sometimes bother the partner. However, even he’d screw up in bed, the Virgo man would blame the circumstances and not the participants.

But you don’t need to worry too much about this thing he has with aesthetics as he is open for any suggestion. If a woman is a little bit more aggressive, she can have him doing whatever she wants.

The only thing the Virgo native would not do in bed is sexual fantasies. He will do anything else to satisfy his partner, but he won’t do fantasies.

If not engaged by something, the Virgo man will be happy doing it in the position he’s already used with.

He likes having sex under the cover. He will take her from behind and he will love it. As far as you don’t force him to do anything, the Virgo man will be interested in trying new things.

If you are more experienced, you can teach him things like you would teach an adolescent. If you smoothly bite him on the buttocks, he will immediately have an erection.

Not a very sexual person, the Virgo man can also be cold and indifferent when in bed. There are Virgo men who have been married for a long time and haven’t had sex from the first year of their marriage.

So make sure you stimulate him all the time. He is prone to becoming addicted to pornography and if this occurs, his sexual life is completely compromised.

Too busy for a relationship

His intellect is admired by many and he is very good at analyzing things. Mercury, his ruler, is also the governor of anything to do with logic. Anything that will help him advance and evolve is interesting for the man in this sign.

He doesn’t like to waste money and he often asks people what they are doing with their money.  If there’s something that involves risk, the Virgo man will definitely not pursue it.

He knows when things become risky and he avoids that path. It’s not an instinct, it’s his way of analyzing things, which is with practicality.

He’s not running his life based on hunches, but on judgments.  And he tends to choose his friends the same way. Busy to be perfect at work and also a good friend, the Virgo male doesn’t have much time for a relationship.

Methodical, conscientious and reliable, this hard-working man finds solutions to any problem. He takes his time to put up a plan and he attacks the issue from more than one angle. He’s always shaved and good looking as he likes people who take care of themselves.

If you decide not to call him the next day, he won’t be insisting. He only wants to play the game, not to be the one who rules it. He’s an energetic sex partner and he sometimes gets protective with his lover.

He can be a husband, a lover, a father, a brother and a best friend for a woman. If you want to marry him, he won’t give you an answer till you both analyze the situation very well.

He will consider how good and efficient of a partner you are, and after he’ll decide if you should get married or not.

He is loyal and reliable and he’ll spend most of his spare time reading or learning a new language. He’s not that social. His woman will be well kept financially but she won’t get absolutely everything that she wants.

He understands the real worth of money but he likes luxury too. You’ll never be betrayed by this man. He believes in loyalty and he’s always looking for something serious and long-term.


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Written by Denise

Denise is an experienced practitioner of astrology, interested to discover and share with everyone how astrology can inspire and change lives. She is the Editor in Chief at The Horoscope.