Virgo Relationship Traits and Love Tips

A relationship with a Virgo is working towards perfection as these natives want nothing less, nothing more in their lives and from their partners.

couple with a Virgo sign

The Virgo natives are one of a kind when it comes to relationships. With a lot of patience and a steady-minded approach, they can sit for quite a while, waiting to determine whether it’s worth it at all or not.

Pros Cons
They are perfectionistic but will also develop their partner. They can be overly obsessed with certain things.
They are playful and quite enthusiastic. They have isolating tendencies.
They aim to build a very strong bond. They don’t really divert from already established plans.

The partner must show that they enjoy and need the presence of the Virgoan before a stronger bond can be established. These natives turn up the sensuality meter, increasing their enthusiasm and intense kinkiness.

In spite of their name, humbleness and purity are the last things on their mind when the love tensions start rocking the boat.

A challenging lover

You would think that the majority of people would find it hard to get a partner and a relationship simply because of their own flaws or they didn’t meet a lot of potential lovers.

Well, this is completely different from the Virgo natives. They have a lot to choose from, but their expectations are so high that 99% of the people they meet are incompatible.

They want perfection, nothing else. However, this doesn’t stop them from being playful, enthusiastic and keen on trying new things.

If it wasn’t for their shyness and general introversion that’s always restraining their potential, these Virgo individuals would rock the world. Romantically, they can be very passionate and loving.

The Virgos tend to be split between two sides. On the one hand, they can be extremely secretive and keep to themselves even aspects that would clear away a lot of confusion.

You won’t be able to make them open up unless it’s a willing act. On the other hand, they can be the most gallivanting and talkative individuals out there.

Your ears will wither and fall off at the sheer torrent of stories and tales they will spout per second. Obviously, these two extremes can only annoy people more than they regale them.

Before they give their consent, they first have to be seduced, convinced, courted, just like the royalty that they are.

Virgo natives will first have to put their partners through endless tests, especially getting the seal of approval from their family. They will enjoy showing their lover to everyone who’s suspicious or unbelieving of his or her worth.

Of course, they’re trying their best to determine if the choice is a good one. After all, they’re already thinking about establishing a family alongside the partner.

Being a perfectionist isn’t that horrible as one might think. Virgo individuals are going to put in a lot of effort into their relationship, trying to make everything work flawlessly, working on their own flaws or those of their partners.

Moreover, order and organization are the top two aspects that they take into consideration. Nothing is out of its place in their house.

Personality-wise, as their partner, one will feel all the better when they get to access more and more of their personal lives. Romanticism and affection are not going to lack from their household.

Quite sensitive, indeed

What you might not know about the Virgo lovers is that they are extremely witty and intelligent. You won’t even realize that you’ve been talking to them for the last half an hour, but they didn’t hear a thing.

Devising and planning, thinking about the future, concocting the absolute strategy to achieve self-perfection, these are all mind-consuming for them.

Even when they are overrun with problems and stressing challenges, helping others and supporting the needy will still come first.

They are kind and generous, as well as very affectionate and thoughtful in relationships.

Things fall apart when their lover does something wrong or says something they shouldn’t have.

One other thing about them is the expectation that everyone should be as organized, punctual and leaning to perfection as they are.

They would prefer to fall in love with someone who accepts them completely for who they are, without trying to change some things. This is, obviously, a very hard thing to achieve because they have plenty of weird and exaggerated expectations.

However, that person is out there, all they have to do is look. It takes time to eventually find that ideal partner, one understanding and loving enough to accept all the pros and cons. Just know that they are out there, constantly searching for this special someone.

The relationship with the Virgo man

The Virgo man is just like a coconut if you think about it. Rough and hard on the outside, but juicy and mellow on the inside.

It takes some time and effort until you reveal all the layers, but it’s doable. You just have to excite him enough to release the limitations and express his emotions fully.

He’s a patient and calm individual who never runs amok, but he thinks things through before acting. That’s why an impulsive and spontaneous woman would only ruin his life.

Anyone can rely on him to solve a problem with tenacity and resourcefulness. No one will have to worry about any mishaps or screw-ups when this native is dealing with the situation.

Nothing can get him out of his comfort zone, as he is seemingly prepared for everything.

If you’re looking for a handy, ambitious and grounded man with whom to build a stable future, then you’ve got no time to waste. Just go and find your own Virgo.

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The relationship with the Virgo woman

The Virgo woman doesn’t play the roulette when searching for a partner. She takes it all very seriously. After all, it’s going to be a one-time thing, a long-standing relationship until death does the part, or at least that’s what they’re looking for.

She will put in her entire being in making sure that everything’s good and that nothing’s missing, that the relationship is going the right way.

At first, you may think that she’s cold, fussy, indifferent and playing hard-to-get, but while that is true, she only does it because she’s been hurt in the past.

Out of fear and reluctance to suffer another disappointment, she tries to make sure that, this time, the person is the right one.

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Written by Denise

Denise is an experienced practitioner of astrology, interested to discover and share with everyone how astrology can inspire and change lives. She is the Editor in Chief at The Horoscope.