Scorpio Man in a Relationship: Understand and Keep Him in Love

The Scorpio man is very intense in everything he does and will try to connect with the partner at a spiritual level.

man with a Scorpio man

The Scorpio man is very intense in everything that he does. He can be the most devoted and enthusiastic partner, being next to you all the time, trying to have fun with you and make you happy.

But he can also get very angry and get his sweet revenge if you betray him. He won’t stop until he makes you apologize or feel just as bad as he felt.

Pros Cons
He is capable of some very deep discussions.He may hide what he is feeling for a while.
His passion is intense and all-consuming.He may do something but mean the opposite.
He will not let others offend you in any way.You don’t really know where you stand with him.

He may be clingy and possessive, in an attempt to connect with you on a spiritual level, but that’s how he expresses his affection and emotions, through strikes of passionate moments.

A perfectionist, always ready for action

The Scorpio man is one very involved partner when in a relationship because of the strong feelings and emotions.

Very affectionate and tender with his partner, he just can’t lose the idea that this time, this relationship will be the final one, with a special person to hold his hands for all eternity.

However, this also means that when a break-up ensues, his love will turn into hate, completely negative feelings that will be turned against everyone. In general, he lets go of any inhibitions and just gives his heart on a platter to his partner.

The Scorpio partner likes to feel in control in a relationship, to take the lead of his partner’s life. He’s the one making plans, putting them in practice however he wants, and generally having fun at the expense of his partner’s disagreements.

It’s not that he uses this power to manipulate and hurt her, but he gets very excited and giddy just knowing he’s in control. However, just seeing how he reveals himself to you completely, with weaknesses and vulnerabilities, you get to truly appreciate his combative personality.

Even though he’ll literally explode when he’s suspicious and jealous, you can learn to deal with that when the time comes.

The Scorpio man in love can be the happiest and most lovable husband when everything’s fine. Comfortable and relaxed, and very tolerant to all his partner’s mistakes, he quickly forgets about arguments and conflicts in an attempt to create the perfect balance.

His feelings are deep and passionate, often too intense for some sensitive women who can’t take that much. His passion is volcanic, and it bursts weaker minds.

Moreover, he wants a woman who knows what she wants from life and who won’t try to live her life by leeching his. You can outperform him in every domain for all he cares, all the more respect and admiration he will have.

He’s the perfectionist type who wants to take everything to the next level, develop his skills, advance on the social ladder to the top position, create a stable and secure household to raise his children in.

As for his kids, he will personally take care of their education, teach them the morals and basic principles of respectable men. There is nothing more important to him that the safety and wellbeing of his family.

One of the reasons why he is so controlling and standoffish with his partner is because he has strenuous relationships with his mother, who always sought to control him. He needs to understand that you don’t want to strip his freedom and independence away.

While he desires to be loved and to share his life with someone that he cares about, he is also very afraid to open up, to become affectionate and close to someone.

He fears that it could all end because he is sensitive and overly emotional, that he would get abandoned by his partner and left alone. He hates being alone more than anything in the world.

This is why he often employs some protective mechanisms to avoid such situations, like not getting that emotionally involved. Rush him and he’ll get colder even quicker.

As his partner, you will definitely receive endless praise

While the Scorpio man does want you to give him his free space, you also shouldn’t let him see everything there is to see from the very beginning. Let a little slice of mystery float between you two so that he is always intrigued and doesn’t forget why he fell in love with you.

Use this attitude and approach only if you know what you’re doing, but once he’s caught in the net and trusts you completely, he’s going to become a different man altogether.

With him, the more failures and ruined relationships he has had, the more confident and ready he is for the important one. All the experiences and events that he had to go through were all in preparation for the one true love.

What relationship is that with no conflicts and little arguments? For him, committing is a very important concept and he has to prepare well for this, to really know the other person, to trust her unconditionally.

If you’re ready to give up on your independence and a little bit of your freedom to act, then the Scorpio native will take you under his wings and protect you indefinitely from the harsh dangers of the world.

There is no one stronger and more determined than him in this regard. At his side, his partner will receive endless praise and be crowned queen.

With a Scorpio native, everything will be about the power struggles, to endless bickering on the smallest of topics, who gets to decide where to go and what to eat, and if you keep on going against his will in a never-ending war, it’s no good. Or you might want to surrender and live comfortably under his leadership.

You should know that once he takes the decision to take you as his wife, it’s a permanent decision that he will never regret or take back.

He’s dead serious when he dreams about the future prospects with you, about building a house together, about having children, about living together.

The Scorpio man will always fight and struggle to keep the relationship alive by all means necessary, and even when you want to break-up, he will still insist on trying again, out of the boundless love that animates his actions.

His emotional intensity might be too hard to bear, and his changing moods are very annoying at times, so there’s that. You get to choose if it’s worth it.

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Written by Denise

Denise is an experienced practitioner of astrology, interested to discover and share with everyone how astrology can inspire and change lives. She is the Editor in Chief at The Horoscope.