Scorpio In Love: How Compatible Is With You?

Some may say their controlling, others that their love is fiery.


When in love, Scorpios become loyal and caring, but only if the partner is devoted to them 100%. They can get as possessive and jealous as the Taurus, and they think betrayal and unfaithfulness are simply unacceptable. They will immediately take revenge if the partner betrays them.

When they fall for someone, Scorpios become powerful and intense. Not the most emotional people, they will prove their love with affectionate gestures and by making their lover feel like he or she is the most important one in the world. They are sensual creatures who don’t mind expressing their feelings.

Scorpio natives are full of passion and wish to life and will seem mysterious to many. They can one minute be uninterested and relaxed, and the other attentive and caring.

These guys live to be at extremes, showering others with their hot and then cold personality. They don’t like to share details about their personal life with people, and they are able to keep secrets better than anyone else.

Also, they will never reveal their deepest feelings because they don’t want to get hurt. You can trust them with all of your most hidden secrets. They will never tell.

But if you want to be their partner, you first have to win their trust. And this may prove to be a difficult thing. Besides, you’ll have to stay away from their love life.

If you have anything to hide, they will immediately find it out as they have investigative talents. They are so good at finding out things about people, they would make incredible love detectives.

Connecting at an intimate level

Seductive and an enigma for many, Scorpios are amazing lovers. They have a magnetism and an intuition that helps them identify what the partner wants.

When they are making love, they don’t look just for a physical connection, they are looking for something emotional as well.

They want to really connect with their partner, to get near his or her inner thoughts and feelings. Because they are passionate, intimate and hidden, they will make anyone curious about them.

They are turned on when they come across extreme characters, and they want to connect with others at an intimate level.

Fascinated by power, these guys will seduce in order to control. When they love someone, they are deep and meaningful. There’s nothing superficial about Scorpios. Intensity is what characterizes them the most.

But it will take a person a long time to make them leave their guard down. They pay a lot of attention to whom they are trusting. Terrified of getting hurt, they want their lover to be worthy of all their attention.

Serious when they decide to give their heart to someone, Scorpios will devote their entire life to the right person. When they commit, they are doing it for a lifetime.

Complex and irresistible, their emotions are real and deep. Relationships are something very important to these people. It can be an adventure to be their partner as they also need their own space.

Balance is a problem in the relationship with them. They need someone who cares, a person who can awaken their emotions without being too needy and invasive.

Their pickiness in love

Many would say Scorpios are insensitive and cold, but they aren’t. They just don’t know how to properly show the feelings they are so intensely having.

These guys need to be with someone who is happy to put up with their emotions. Someone strong and down-to-earth would be perfect for them.

When they’re having a conversation, Scorpios don’t talk about weather or the latest on in the fashion industry. They like to have deep, meaningful discussions about life matters and philosophy.

They may be reserved and quiet in the beginning, but they start to be more talkative as soon as the discussion is more engaging.

They have a good sense of humor, and they can make others feel good at a party or at a social gathering. These people don’t like to use metaphors and other conversational artifices.

When they talk, they are saying things as they actually are, and they don’t go around anything. Gossip and chit-chat is not something they enjoy.

Don’t ask them for their opinion unless you are completely open to hearing something honest and from the heart.

When they fall in love, Scorpios hold on tight to the person they like. They will do anything to pleasure and make the partner feel good about him or herself. They tend to be possessive, and they expect to get back the same amount of love and affection that they are offering.

Moody, people born in Scorpio can sometimes irritate their partner with their changeable emotional states. If they’re upset or angry, they shut down completely, no longer allowing anyone to get through.

It’s essential they learn how to communicate better if they want successful relationships. Usually, Water signs like the Scorpio are the most compatible with Earth or other Water signs. These will be in the position to deal with the moods Scorpios are having.

Great family people, Scorpios will make good parents and incredible spouses. They are supporting and good providers. More than this, you should know they are observant and attentive.

When you’re feeling down, they will know it without being verbally informed. And they will do their best to make you feel better.

They have the power to guess what you’re about to say before you have even opened your mouth. It’s because they like to study behaviors and emotions. That’s why they are so good at knowing when someone’s lying to them.

Just keep them secure and not jealous, and you will have someone reliable and caring next to you, for a very long time.

A hidden seduction secret

This is why they sometimes keep it cool before they commit. They know they will lose themselves too early. As soon as the relationship becomes something serious, they will be one with their partner. But before things get there, some control problems with them need to be solved.

Fine students of psychology, they can be too intrusive when it comes to the other half’s thoughts and feelings. Some yoga or meditation would be useful to make them take their mind of this.

They need to calm down and to think of something else rather than what their partner is going through. Not to mention they don’t get involved if they don’t know the relationship will at some point pay off. This can make them lose at love often.

They sometimes seduce just to discover the other person’s personality and most intimate secrets. If they are in love, they analyze all the qualities and downfalls of a person, till they are sure they want to get involved at a deeper level.

These are the type of people who investigate, check pockets and Google others to know every little detail. But when it comes to emotions, no one can beat them.

They can barely handle their feelings on their own, so it may be difficult for someone else to handle their inner world too. More than this, they have moods that many wouldn’t understand.

Serious and attentive, Scorpios won’t express their anger or disappointment directly if they are being hurt. They will wait and quietly get their revenge.

As a matter of fact, their vengeful nature is what scares many people away. They are known as the most dangerous sign in the zodiac as they take time to study a person and attack him or her where they care the most, if they have done something to hurt them.

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Written by Denise

Denise is an experienced practitioner of astrology, interested to discover and share with everyone how astrology can inspire and change lives. She is the Editor in Chief at The Horoscope.