How To Attract A Scorpio Man: Top Tips For Getting Him To Fall In Love

See the kind of woman he is after and how to win his heart.

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Top five tips:
  1. Keep an air of mystery about you.
  2. Be simple and elegant.
  3. Don’t try to make him jealous.
  4. Challenge his beliefs from time to time.
  5. Don’t interfere too much with his plans.

It’s better to be the Scorpio man’s friend rather than his enemy. This guy can be very dangerous when he feels cornered.

One of the most attractive signs in the zodiac, he will charm lovers without even trying. The chances for you to be the only one who he’s interested in are remote.

He has an army of admirers and women who want to be with him. So be ready to take out every quality that you have and get him to like you. Your main advantage is the fact that you know he’s in Scorpio, so you have a chance to determine what he may be into.

First of all, what you need to understand is that the man born in this sign has an incredible intuition, and he is able to see what’s behind people’s masks. Seduction and manipulation don’t work with him.

He will see from a mile away that you are trying to deceive. Don’t interact with this guy and at the same time think of seducing him. Focus on showing him who you actually are. If you do otherwise, you will fail.

In love, the game should be more like a chase. He likes women who are hard to get. You’ll have a better chance at making him like you, if he has to work on gaining your love.

Those who are struggling to make him like them never have a chance at making this guy curious. He also gets bored when someone is trying everything to make him interested.

He’ll love you if you stand your ground

It’s essential that the Scorpio sees you as an equal, as someone who just has the same interests and doesn’t want anything from him.

This man is known for wanting to always be in control. That’s why he needs to be in a familiar environment all the time.

If you go on a date with the Scorpio man, pick a place that he has visited before. Or better, let him choose where you two will go. He’s an excellent organizer anyway, so he’ll take you somewhere nice.

You will be surprised by his choice. He can think of anything, from a romantic dinner to a drink on a roof in the city.

However, all this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have a say about the matter. You can disagree. Yet bring strong arguments to your objection. He doesn’t like it when people don’t know why they are doing or saying certain things.

If he likes being in control, it doesn’t mean he’s not flexible. He’s always happy to agree with someone else’s suggestions as long as his authority is not being challenged.

This guy likes to keep the distance. It may take him a while before he opens up and trusts you. As soon as you are in his inner circle, he will become the most loyal and warm person.

But don’t hurry all this. Don’t stress him with phone calls and texts. Also, it’s advisable that you avoid getting too involved into his personal life or make too many remarks about how he lives his life.

Let him reveal his qualities on his own. Admire and respect him for his choices. Keep in mind this is a person who always remembers if he has been insulted, and seeks revenge whenever someone does him wrong. He can break up with his partner out of the blue, and he gets angry very easily.

His mysteriousness works in his favor

Independent, the Scorpio man’s freedom needs to be respected. He’s also ambitious, so he’ll want to be with a person who supports and encourages him to fulfill his hopes and dreams.

If you are that someone, make sure you have your own life goals too. This guy doesn’t like people who aren’t determined and who don’t know what to do with themselves.

Proving him that you’re independent is one of the main attractions for the Scorpio man. Have ambitions and talk to him about your career. He will love you for it.

When he talks about his own, make sure you sound interested and supportive. Win his trust by making him feel secure around you. Keep in mind that he wants to be in control of everything. He would hate to see that you know everything about his insecurities.

He needs to be in power all the time, this being the reason why he wears a mask that only displays toughness and force. Also, this is why he is secretive and doesn’t reveal too many things about himself.

But in the meantime, he’ll want to know everything about you. If you’re questioning him too much, he’ll become suspicious and wonder about what your real motives may be.

Be reserved. Keep a composed attitude and don’t be too enthusiastic about discovering who he actually is. Remember that playing with a Scorpio is pretty much a risky business.

He’s harsh and he pays attention to every little detail. This guy likes mystery more than anything else in the world. So don’t tell him everything about you from the first moment you meet.

Let him dig for more information. You’ll want to be an enigma he needs to uncover. This way, he’ll pay much more attention to everything you have to say. And that’s what you want after all, isn’t it?

The most sexual sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio is passionate and a great lover. But this doesn’t mean you’ll have to reveal too much of your sexuality when around him. Keep it cool and have light conversations. Just a little bit of flirting will do.

Know when it’s time to chase and when to let go

A successful way to make a Scorpio man fall for you is to catch his glance and to listen carefully to what he has to say. Subtly suggest that something between you two is possible.

He likes knowing that people want him. And this doesn’t go only for the Scorpios, but also for other signs in the zodiac.

Very honest and direct, the Scorpio man will let you know immediately if he’s into you or not. There is no second guessing with this guy. He’s pretty blunt, and he doesn’t like to waste too much of his or your time.

However, if he hasn’t informed you straightaway that he’s not at all interested, there is a good chance that you will get him in time. Just pay attention to whether he talks with you more than with anyone else, or if he looks into your eyes from time to time.

Don’t pursue if there’s nothing there. You wouldn’t want to get too disappointed. You should know better than anyone else when someone is into you, or they just want to keep it all cool and relaxed.

The Scorpio man will never fall for someone who lied to him. Or someone who likes to play others for fools. So be very careful to how you act around him.

Be sincere and don’t hesitate to tell him things that you don’t really like that much about yourself. He will trust you more, and he’ll appreciate that you don’t hesitate to be honest and open. If you are lying, he will know and he won’t forget.

Remember that he can read people like open books. Don’t think for a second that you can get away with white lies, because you won’t. Not only you will get discovered, but you will also lose all his respect. He will never be interested in you anymore.

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Written by Denise

Denise is an experienced practitioner of astrology, interested to discover and share with everyone how astrology can inspire and change lives. She is the Editor in Chief at The Horoscope.