- Be flirty and cheerful with her.
- Offer support with her social activities.
- Avoid conflicts or showing any temper.
- Don’t take things personally.
- Protect her and soothe her worries.
If there is one thing that Libras love, it’s flirting. Their ability to comfortably position themselves in any social situation means that they’re great company anyway, but her natural charm makes her incredibly popular. Take too much time with your Libra lady, and someone else may swoop in for her instead.
You must remember that balance is key to a Libras life – emotional, social, physical and every other aspect you can think of. They hate conflict for this reason, often choosing to keep the peace where possible instead.
Any outbursts of anger, sorrow, or anything else that may upset her balance will only serve to scare her away.
Libras enjoy collecting possessions and building a repertoire of belongings that reflect their personality. Everything that belongs to her is an extension of herself.
This can be worked to your advantage – so when complimenting her, do so with knowledge and intellect. Understand the meaning of why she is the way she is, it will impress her no end.
Taking her out is also another opportunity for you to show your own cultural knowhow. Libras are known for their sophisticated tastes and gravitation towards art – so shy away from mundane locations and indulge her senses with a trip to a culturally rich city or an art exhibition. Follow this up with a meal at a fine dining restaurant – Libras love living life at the top.
Exerting any kind of limitation on a Libra woman while you are trying to attract her will also put her off. Let her take her time assessing the situation and assessing you. She prefers being able to keep her options open.
Her strong sense of right and wrong means that she always likes to play fairly. Honesty and integrity are important to her and she expects the same of her man.
Anyone who is looking to cut corners, cheat systems or otherwise act unfairly won’t go down in her good books. It is important then for you to maintain a strong sense of justice.
That said, Libras have a reputation for second guessing themselves, so don’t be surprised if she cancels a date at the last minute as this is normal for her character.
It’s doubly important to make sure that you don’t get upset by this – remember sudden downturns in emotion upset her balance and will more than likely put her off.
Time is key with Libra women so make sure you give her plenty of it. Though she has a unique sense of both sides of any situation, this process takes time as she assesses the good and the bad.
She will do this about you too, so the last thing you want to do is to force her to make a decision before she is ready. Give her time and be patient, in time she’ll warm to you.
Get comfortable … quickly
Initially, your Libra lady may come across like her defences are up. There’s nothing wrong with this, but don’t fall under the impression that she isn’t ambitious. Despite any previous romantic mishaps, she still dreams of her perfect life and who she’ll spend it with.
They’re looking for someone who can prise open that raised guard and equally someone who will lower their guard in front of her too.
As explained before, Libras require balance in their lives, and this is just another example of that. This goes further too – she loves it when her potential partner gets on with a friend or other close one, as it brings further harmony and equilibrium to her life.
Her readiness to let her man take the reins means she likes it when he caters to her wishes of his own accord. This might be something as simple as a small favour, or it could also be starting something that both parties can have an active role in.
Given our Libra woman’s knack for conversation, it goes without saying that dull or boring chatter is a turn off. You have to show a level of intellect and humour in order to draw her in – after all, it is probably fair to say that a good conversationalist is probably the most important thing to her when looking for a man.
Anything that disturbs her equilibrium won’t go down well. This is why she prefers to be at peace with others rather than engaging in conflict.
So if you’re the kind of man who is most comfortable when at odds with someone else, don’t expect your Libra to stick around for long. She simply doesn’t care enough to be part of something so petty.
That said, her ability to see every side to an argument means that she will be sympathetic to your cause if you do find yourself in such a situation, but the limits are what is important. As long as you keep things friendly and don’t overstep any marks, she won’t mind a healthy debate.
Remember that being a great conversationalist is key to attracting a Libra woman? Dig a little deeper, and you’ll realise that all she wants is someone who can be her lover and her best buddy.
In her book, love and companionship are two sides of the same coin, and she will rarely be with someone who isn’t simultaneously a great friend too.
One way of initiating this is by making her realise that you are someone she can tell her secrets and thoughts to, knowing they will stay with you.
Dropping your own guard will aid in this, as well as arranging time together in quiet spots. This will help her open up and pretty soon she may well start seeing you as her go-to person when she needs to talk about something. Managing this scenario right could then lead onto more romantically orientated meetings, which is ultimately where you want to be.
What to avoid with your Libra lady
Conversation is key with Libra women, more specifically the high-brow variety. You should however avoid coming across as too educational or divisive though. Giving her adequate time to talk helps maintain a balanced conversation that she likes.
You should also avoid crude chatter and foul language. Jokes of a poor nature, as well as rude remarks won’t go down well at all.
Her innate desire to keep the peace means she might not necessarily show that she hasn’t taken kindly to your words, but her refusal to go on another date with you will tell the whole story.
Part of this is down to the antagonism associated with swearing or otherwise brash language. She dislikes confrontation and is all too aware of how a simple comment can turn into a full-on argument, opting instead to keep her distance.
Rather, try to pick a topic to talk about that you’re well-versed in. This way, you can come across as highly knowledgeable and intellectual, giving her the chance to engage in some analytical thought. Note, that this is the polar opposite of being vulgar or crass.
Her heightened sense of justice means that any acts or comments of a cruel nature towards people or even animals will incur her wrath.
She doesn’t lose her temper often, but injustice is one thing that will cause her to blow up. This largely stems from her peace-loving attitude, doing all she can to stay away from the uglier things in life.
While most women are ultimately looking for security and comfort, Libra women are turned off by those who like to show off their wealth and power. The reason for this is that she sees it as intimidation and perhaps even provocation too. Sensing a potential conflict, she will turn away at this.
Her perception of money comes primarily from a practical level – it is just the modality through which to purchase the things a person wants.
She will rarely chase money for the purpose of simply accumulating it but that isn’t to say that’s he doesn’t value it – men of a tight-fisted nature won’t impress her either. In terms of her life, money isn’t high on the priority list.
What she isn’t looking for in your bank balance, she will be looking for in your overall appearance. She will seldom tolerate any man who doesn’t look after the way he looks. She likes cleanliness and nice smells, so stay tidy, bathed and well-dressed – it will make a perfect first impression.
What you need to keep in mind about the Libra woman
Balance is something that comes with little effort to Libra women. This equilibrium they seem to constantly have means they’re incredibly social people and have little trouble using their charm finding a comfort zone with new people very quickly.
This does also mean that you’ll be at the mercy of her allure upon meeting her. Her modest self-esteem means she knows her place at all times and everyone else becomes aware of this very quickly too – almost as soon as she enters the room.
Make no mistake though, our Libra woman knows she has the charisma to flutter her eyelashes and get what she wants.
Under the rule of Venus, Libra females are looking for the simple things in a relationship – mutual respect, genuine love and adoration. These things give her the balance that is crucial for her life.
She is happy to look at the details and provide you with a balanced view of all the details in any situation where you have to choose between various options – but she will leave the decision making to you. In this sense, she makes a brilliant advisor and is someone who you can trust will have your best interests at heart.
This says a lot about the kind of man she is looking for – someone who is strong and can make those big calls.
That’s not to say she won’t want to make her opinion known though, she likes it when she knows she is being listened to, but prefers the security in knowing that she’s with someone who isn’t afraid of a tough choice.
Showing her this side of you – that you’re someone who will listen to her but lead her at the same time – is key to drawing her in.
Her natural intelligence and ability to almost look at a situation objectively means she is unparalleled when it comes to working with others. Helping her is the fact that she is so laid back too.
The combination of all these things together explains why you might have your eyes set on winning the heart of a Libra woman.
That’s not to say that it’ll be easy to win her though – for example, showing most women that you’re funny and can make her laugh is more often than not a great way to draw her in. Not our Libra though. She won’t be put off by it, but she will assume you’re just like every other guy and look elsewhere.
Instead, approach her with dignity and make her feel at ease. This will work a lot better. Continuing with this approach and making her feel loved earns her complete loyalty. Men who have won the heart of a Libra woman will feel the full warmth of her romantic side.
Her balanced view of the world often puts her at odds with the status quo and she isn’t afraid to say what she thinks either.
While this may appear as arrogance, it is simply the fact that she doesn’t like to beat around the bush, preferring to be direct instead.
Libras are social butterflies and they’re proud of it too. You needn’t be worried about inviting her out with your friends, as she’ll quickly find her place and be at ease.
Despite this it easy-going nature, it isn’t easy to win a Libra woman’s love. If you do find that you have though, she will love unconditionally.