Relationships are only normal when the partners are a little bit possessive and exhibit some jealousy of people who get the other half’s attention.
As a matter of fact, jealousy can help with the respect two partners have for each other. But there are times when jealousy can no longer be kept under control, putting the relationship at risk.
Charismatic, open and fun, the Gemini is a great person to be in the company of. Never boring, these people need someone maintain the entertainment levels high.
When asked if jealous, a Gemini will laugh and try to make their lover think it’s all a paranoia. If actually jealous, the Gemini won’t talk about the person in question and him or her will change the subject when that individual is brought into discussion.
Represented by the twins, the element of this sign is Air. A Gemini born on the cusp of Taurus will be more serious and determined, while one born on the cusp of Cancer will have moods and will be increasingly sensitive.
When in love, the Gemini are playful and happier. If they are jealous of someone, they will make jokes to put that person in a bad light.
Malleable, it is hard to say jealousy is a problem with the Gemini. They are a mystery these people, so at a glance they wouldn’t appear jealous. They are aware of the fact that people can change and they also know everything a person does can’t to be taken too seriously.
Fast thinkers, the Gemini love playing the detective sometimes, so be a little bit mysterious if you want to hook up a person in this sign.
But be careful who you wish for, as in love Gemini may be a little bit forgetful and clumsy. For example, they can forget all about dinner and leave you alone on a Saturday night. They also like to flirt a lot, but if they’ve found someone they become very faithful.
Not one for a jealousy crisis
Knowing it is possible for themselves to cheat, they make the assumption that the partner is on the same level. This is what makes them start looking for some evidence, somewhere, thing that leads to a broken relationship and them being unhappy.
They are optimistic and they love life with all of its aspects. That’s why it’s easy for them to adapt to new people and situations.
When in trouble, don’t hesitate to inform your Gemini friend about it. His or her analytic senses will find you a solution fast. With their incredible imagination, they will imagine everything that can be done for your problem. And all this just because they love helping others.
It is not known for Gemini to have jealousy crises. However, they sometimes generate jealousy scenes without having a reason. Most compatible with Libra and Aquarius, the Gemini are also great with Aries and Leo, Taurus and Cancer.It is only the Gemini's guilty mind that causes them to be jealous themselves. Click To Tweet
They are aware of what they have done, or wanted to do, and the jealousy they carry is nothing else than the projection of their own guilt.
They calculate that if they did it or would have done it, the partner thinks the exact same way. When they are very jealous, in most cases it means they have done something behind their lover’s back.
If you want a Gemini to be next to you for a very long time, leave him or her the impression that they have all the freedom in the world.
They are the sign who simply hate when others tell them what they should do. They don’t like needy people who get jealous out of nothing.
If there is nothing to worry about and them themselves aren’t unfaithful or thinking to be, the Gemini will never be jealous. They care about the relationship, but they just aren’t jealous.
Of course, that if they have a reason, the Gemini will get jealous. But they are rational beings and they don’t let unrooted emotions overcome their logical mind.
They usually trust their partners and they are able to bring a lot of good fun into a relationship. Don’t ever bore your Gemini and always keep him or her guessing.
When they hit rock bottom
In case you are involved in a relationship and your partner has jealousy crises all the time, there is about time you take some action. It is important that you identify what is causing your lover to be jealous.
The situations may differ from one person to another, and some people are jealous because it is simply the way they are. But in most cases, the jealousy is caused by something.
For example, there are people who are too emotional and they become dependent on relationships. They start to envision a partner as their own property and they don’t even allow other people to get close to him or her.
This is extreme jealousy and it can be taken to Court as violation of one’s freedom and rights. As a matter of fact, this is the pathological side of jealousy and you should stay away from the person who is doing this to you.
There are cases in which people have had unfaithful partners before and now they are scared of not going through the same embarrassing and hurting situation.
In this case, you should start a conversation with your partner. Assure him there is nothing he or she should worry about and ask more about how things happened in the past.
Small gestures of love would also be helpful. Wear something they gave you at your first date or call them at work. This will help bring security back in their mind and the jealousy is sure to get dissipated.
Your partner may only imagine things. There are cases in which a person could have a paranoia episode.
It usually happens when people lose their jobs and they’re no longer busy, or when they lose someone dear and they are looking to focus on something else and not the pain they are feeling.
In this situation, you need to talk to your partner and let them know everything’s perfect and there’s no reason for them to be jealous. If they don’t understand, suggest professional help.