10 Key Things To Know Before Dating A Gemini

Be aware of these Gemini dating tips so you can make the most of your dates with this energetic sign.

Geminis are the twin-headed lovers of the Zodiac, and if you’ve ever had the impression that someone you’re seeing has a split personality disorder, then congratulations, you just met a Gemini.

It’s not a bad thing, in fact it could be a life-changing moment for you. There are no permanent traits that could describe such an individual, since he constantly shifts back and forth from one attitude to another.

Filled with energy, as well as enjoying alone moments, smart as a whip and terrifyingly ingenious, but also quite lacking in empathy, a Gemini will quickly strike you as an abnormal, yet fascinating man at the same time.

1. They can fill your life with joy

A Gemini will never bore his auditorium, with all the diversity and vitality of his two personas. For those who want to bear witness to another aspect of life, one filled with surprises and endless moments of joy, there is nothing better than hooking up with a Gemini.

The experience will definitely change your views on many accounts, due to the uniqueness of his actions and thoughts.

Teeming with unusual and sparkling new ideas, he will forever be the person with the most vitality and enthusiasm out of everyone else.

They do, however, seem to lack a certain determination and the willpower to take some decisions, while also being of a rather volcanic upbringing.

But these are just a few minor flaws that are barely noticeable, let alone upsetting. That’s what makes up their charm, after all, and no one can ever hold a candle to that.

2. They are more observant than you’d think

What best describes a Gemini, besides the renowned dichotomy of self, is the tendency to observe and rationalize everything around them.

People, their behaviors and attitudes, places, architecture and painting, morality, nothing falls short of a Gemini’s capacity of analysis. This gives them a pretty powerful insight into the nature of things and other people, which makes them seem aloof at times.

Another oddity about these natives is that, unlike other people, they can judge a situation both from a rational and emotional standpoint. Either using the intellect or the heart, everything seems to conform to the Gemini’s expectances.

3. They are flaky and not the most dependable

There are just too many characteristics that seem to be perfectly suited to describe a  Gemini. Indecisiveness or the inability to fully commit to a decision is also part of what make them who they are.

From skiing to roller-skating, to dancing and painting, and anything in between, a native of this type will, at one point in time, want to do all of these things.

But not for very long though. He would change his mind very quickly and turn up with something entirely different to try. It’s really something completely normal.

4. They are ambitious and high achievers

Ambition is, this time, not something unique to a Gemini, but the sheer amount of it is distinctly not normal, when compared to the other signs.

He will not only want to successfully complete a project, but he will want to do it perfectly, in as little time as possible.

For obvious reasons, failure is utterly unacceptable, but since they just love doing many things at the same time, expecting the usual perfection, accidents sometimes happen. In relationships, they are equally ambitious, in the sense that not just anyone can stand up to them.

It’s not arrogance or a sense of superiority, but personal expectations and preferences that shape their ideal of the perfect soul mate. And, reasonably speaking, this is how it should be.

5. They are nosy and impulsive

Individuals of immense intellectual prowess, Geminis are filled with curiosity. Of what, you ask? Of everything there ever was, is and will be.

History, biology, physics, astronomy, are all domains which this native is or may be interested in, and even having one as a passion is not out of the question.

He will never feel like a discussion is out of his reach because of the topic, because he previously read about that topic.

He might have written an article about that topic as well, and who knows, maybe even held a debate on that topic, just to illustrate the point.

6. They are both social butterflies and couch potatoes

As always, a Gemini’s interests will be under the auspices of the same duality that people have gotten used to.

Both an extrovert, as well as an introvert, the epitome of social popularity, as well as “that guy who never goes out”, everything goes down in double lines with this character.

Nothing is as it seems and everything is changeable. But then again, their high enthusiasm and likeable attitude could very well mean double the fun as well.

7. They are great lovers

Now for the interesting part, Geminis are also especially good lovers, and their ingenuity can often enliven the atmosphere and make things a lot more enjoyable. A lot more.

No inhibitions and no hesitancy exists between a Gemini and his partner, as everything that remains is the potential for pleasure and satisfaction.

Incredibly honest and frank with pretty much everything, there will never be a moment of confusion or misunderstanding that arises.

Shedding all pretenses and masks, Gemini natives always prefer to be open and candid, saying exactly what comes to mind, when it comes to mind. This kind of relationship can only be refreshing and just perfect.

Their sincere and open disposition may determine people to find the same courage and speak their minds freely and without reluctance, which counts for a lot.

8. They are often conflicted

Living life with two mindsets and two personalities can often lead to internal conflicts, when the mind says one thing, while the body does something else.

Between social acceptance and inner gratification, the former seems to gain the upper hand, if only slightly.

However, as a result, a rift also appears in the form of the emotional and logical aspects of their thinking. Judging someone from both viewpoints can be very hard or taxing on the mind, but at the same time, it can lead to very thorough observations and analyses.

Verbal bouts are also a favorite past-time of Geminis, because there lies an opportunity to experience other perspectives on certain matters, perspectives that may be different to their own or not.

They do stick up to their arguments with reckless abandon and a fiery passion, but not the point of blind persistence and ignorance.

If wrong, they are the first to admit it and won’t hesitate in doing so. This goes to show what kind of people they truly are.

9. They value commitment when it occurs at the right time

While very affectionate and dedicated individuals, they also need to be very motivated as well, intellectually or otherwise.

Just keeping them company is, in and of itself, not enough to capture their interest and fascination. To achieve that, one must take it a step further and truly get to know them for who they are.

Doing things together, having long talks about deep subjects, encouraging and showing support, these are all things that are appreciated.

Also, one thing to keep in mind is that Gemini natives are actually very good at taking care of themselves and at surviving critical situations.

Of course, being supportive and helpful counts for a lot in their eyes, but it’s not a crucial aspect in their book.

10. They bask in spontaneity

One thing is for sure though, when talking about Gemini and the relationships with others. The one thing that can’t be said is that he is not diverse and dynamic enough.

You have to be blind and deaf to say that.

Brimming with impatience and energy, this native will do everything in his power to rock the whole world, and do it again in a different manner, multiple times in a row.

The idea is that nothing will ever be simple and one-sided when a Gemini is around, live and kicking.

Know the saying about closed doors/opportunities? A Gemini native can bypass it safely.

He will either get in through the window, create a door by himself or wander through the neighborhood studying all the other doors that he finds.

Which is to say that there is always something for them to do, at any time and in any circumstance. And you can be sure that it won’t be dull and boring.

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Written by Denise

Denise is an experienced practitioner of astrology, interested to discover and share with everyone how astrology can inspire and change lives. She is the Editor in Chief at The Horoscope.